From early age, women have been taught to be good girls. Don’t wear short skirts, don’t reveal so much cleavage, sit properly, and don’t be the girl every guy dates. The mixed messages of being empowered and independent at the same time to acting virginal are beyond ridiculous.

It’s no wonder that as women get older, they find themselves caught up between what their natural body wants in sex and how she is supposed to behave. Sex is a natural act among consenting adults. As long as there is no one getting hurt in the process, just about anything goes.

Yet, women continue to struggle to speak up in the bedroom. Here are some things that your partner secretly wants you do but is too shy to ask or admit. Starting with open communication and a comfortable zone is just the beginning to a fantastic sex life.